A
goofy discussion with my parents regarding the Indian politics that unknowingly
drifted away to a talk on child trafficking and prostitution, my accidental
observation of the trailer of Nagesh Kukunoor's upcoming movie, Lakshmi (which
is made along the same lines of the discussion we had today) and finally, the
inadvertent playing of Ed Sheeran's 'The A Team' on my playlist made me
preoccupied with the thoughts about thousands of women who succumbed to the
abominable game of fate.
It is not just our very own city, state or the
country, there are millions of girls out there, in every part of the Earth,
known by different names. Here in India, it is more of girl children being
trafficked and sold into prostitution and sex trade. In some other countries,
they're the homeless women who sell themselves for their livelihood. Many of
them are even into drugs.
The conversation also let me in on something
that is similar to the situations I wrote above. And this situation is actually
not new. It's been there right here from ages, may be even from the reign of
kings. They're poor harlots somewhere else. And here. They are the destitute
women who never had a man to support their family turned towards this
disrespected profession as they're left with no choice. And they've taken it up
as a family business like any other occupations like Goldsmiths, Farmers, etc.
There are streets in almost every city and town where these women live
and sell themselves for earning their bread. I was shocked to find out today
that, even a tiny village like mine had one such street which is no more to be
seen.
I am not writing to give out the statistics or
write long stories that mean nothing, but just vent out my disappointment on
how people treat them. I wouldn't just point a finger on something I know
nothing about. But even a little bit of empathy, I can't even think for a
minute putting their shoes on. It's just horrifying.
Is this something they really wanted to get
into? I mean, this isn't any fancy job that one would dream of. Call it their
ill luck, fate or destiny that dragged them down into this pit and chained them
down in such a way that there is no escape. But nothing stops them from hoping
to get out of it one day even it is highly difficult. Many NGOs and Volunteers try
rescuing women out of this hell hole, but are they getting enough respect? Why
discriminate someone for something they didn't voluntarily get into?
May be I am wrong, maybe there is someone who
proves me wrong, but I cannot think of a woman who sacrifices it all just to
experience the inferno. The lyrics of 'The A Team' will never let me think so.
People who might have heard it can relate to my thoughts about this but for
those who didn't, here are the lines -
White lips, pale face
Breathing in snowflakes
Burnt lungs, sour taste
Light's gone, day's end
Struggling to pay rent
Long nights, strange men
And they say
She's in the Class A Team
Stuck in her daydream
Been this way since eighteen
But lately her face seems
Slowly sinking, wasting
Crumbling like pastries
And they scream
The worst things in life come free to us
Cause we're just under the upper hand
And go mad for a couple grams
And she don't want to go outside tonight
And in a pipe she flies to the Motherland
Or sells love to another man
It's too cold outside
For angels to fly
Angels to fly
Even though Ed Sheeran
wrote it about a Homeless Drug addict who turns a hooker, I can see the lives
of many people forced into or got into such activities in these words. It is
the way their life is! Never judge a woman for what you see in her. Look for
what she really is. And no matter what utter disrespectful profession she is
in, at least give her some respect.

Don't take for granted, her silence. For she can tear your life apart.
ReplyDeletewell written :)
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